Delve into your darkest desires this Halloween and consider giving your lover something you have long considered, but never dared to try. Give them control of you. The idea of presenting your body for the pleasure of another can be an exhilarating thought for both men and women and is well worth considering whether you are interested in doing it full time or just for play on a dirty Halloween night.

There are many things that you can do to enhance an evening of submissive offerings for your lover. After all, nothing is more intimate and trusting than allowing your lover to be in the driver's seat at the expense of both of your pleasure and maybe even a little added pain or discipline in the process.

Submission for Her:

There are plenty of men, who will melt at the idea of a ready and willing female sex slave. If you are planning to provide this rush for your man consider giving him little clues before hand to make the night perfect. Find out what he is most interested in from clothes to adult toys and make the night come alive.

Leather is a wonderful choice for a beautiful female submissive. Perhaps you are planning to present yourself naked. If that is the case you can still add a little leather. Consider choosing a leather collar and leash so that your Master can lead you around for the evening. Wrist or ankle cuffs could also easily be worn and used to a Dominant's advantage when he is looking to place his submissive in specific situations.

Make it clear when you hand him the leash that he is in control. Do what he says and make sure he knows how hot it gets you to let him lead the way. Make sure you beg him like a good little girl. Whether you are begging for spankings or his cock it will be sure to get his attention.

You can add in some instruments of pleasure or torture that you might think he will like.

Consider the following ideas with him in mind:

A vibrator so he can practice orgasm control, teasing, and denial on his girl
A paddle to spank his naughty slut
A blindfold so he can take her by surprise
Body paint or edible massage oil so he can make her his canvas

Any way you look at it, these are definitely win-win situations and you will both be sure to bask in the pleasure of the evening.

Submission for Him:

It is not common for many men to show their submissive desires so if your woman likes to be in control this could be a very special treat for her. It will show the trust you feel when you hand her the reigns and let her lead you to orgasm and back.

You can choose something sexy to wear like a g-string or less. Maybe a leather harness is more your style. There are many to choose from in a variety of styles. Many harnesses will even lock to wrist cuffs and collars to keep you in line and ready for whatever she commands.

If you are more adventurous, you might choose a chastity device that locks so that you can lock up your cock and present the key to her. It could prove to be an interesting night as she spends all night teasing you and has control of when to unlock you and use your cock so the real fun can begin.

Of course, you might let her restrain you, however she sees fit. If so, consider presenting her with a roll of bondage tape and letting her wrap you up for her own pleasure.

You can easily choose paddles or whips for your Mistress. You might want to add oils and lotions to offer your devotion through foot or body massages. If you have experimented with anal play you might consider buying her a special strap-on. This could be an incredibly sexy night of fun for two people that are willing and able to experiment in this area.

Remember that sexual submission is all about having a good time. Consider what your lover would like and what would turn them on the most. Using these things will show them how interested you are in their pleasure and in turn they will reward you with the fruits of your hard labor with a night unlike any your darkest fantasies has revealed to date.

Note: Sexual submission is quite different than D/s (BDSM) submission is. While sexual submission is typically done in the bedroom for fun, D/s is a serious lifestyle with an intricate set of rules and mores. To learn more, check out the upcoming BDSM article section on Oasis Lingerie.